Have you ever been so angry at someone that you did or said something you regret? Do you have a tendency to lash out at people for no apparent reason? What would you say if that anger could be controlled or at least minimized by one simple act? The problem with anger that most choose to ignore is understanding what the root cause of the anger is in the first place.
One of the most difficult things for people to do is forgive one another. Usually our pride tends to get in the way of doing the right thing. The longer we wait, the more difficult it becomes to forgive one another. You see, anger is rooted in unforgiveness. Subconsciously we carry that burden of unforgiveness until the point that it begins to feed off of every aspect of our lives. It is ironic that we claim to be Christians but can’t seem to even practice the simplest of directions. From the time that we were children, we have been taught “The Lord’s Prayer.” It is specifically laid out in Matthew 6:12: “And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.”
How can we expect God to forgive us if we can’t forgive others? It is amazing the capacity to love that you can accrue by getting rid of the “junk” in your life. On that note, what is it that you need to forgive in order to remove yourself as an obstacle in your own life and press on in the body of Christ?
fundamental and precise ... very good, brandy! judy\o/
ReplyDeleteThere are just some people that are really hard to grant forgiveness to. I know I need to forgive but it is really hard to let go. Maybe I have the forgiveness down but the forgetting (that goes along with it) is the hardest part!
ReplyDeleteLet me ask you this. What do you gain by holding onto the anger and bitterness? That's what I thought, nothing. Why is it so hard to let go? Why do you feel the need to hold onto the memory? There are many things I have asked forgiveness for, doesn't mean I have forgotten my past. But I no longer look on it as something that I remember with pain attached. It's as though it were a distant memory. Did you ever think that's where some of your barriers reside and why you are becoming one of those wives/mothers. Just a thought.
ReplyDeleteMy bitterness/anger is all pointed at the ex and what he put me though. I have a hard time forgiving those painful times. I'm sure u completely understand though! Thanks for the inspiration!
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